Great Read: How to Never Look Fat Again!

I recently had the opportunity to catch up with my friend Charla Krupp at breakfast.
I first  met this terrific author a couple of years ago in NYC. I was attending a Fashion Group International conference, and she was giving a lively presentation one morning. I was outside the ladies room talking with a fashion writer and expounding on the merits of TC Shapewear, and the amazing products. Charla overheard me and came out of the loo, and could not wait to hear what I had to say about one of her favorite subjects…shapewear.
We became friends, and she fell in love with the TC products and has included them in her new book, How to Never Look Fat Again: Over 1,000 Ways to Dress Thinner–Without Dieting!I love Charla’s candor when it comes to dressing, especially how not to look like an OL (Old Lady). A great read, and full of tips on how to look slimmer without resorting to starvation and spending 24 hours in the gym, and who wants to do that anyway?

Swimsuit Pairings for the Modest and the Daring

Getting ready for that 4th of July pool party? Here are some ideas for fun in the sun swimwear this Summer. Article from iVillage.

What is business casual?


 Business casual is the myth of working in comfort on Fridays. The problem is comfort has become careless, reckless and downright foolish.

Unless you’re Steve Jobs, Bill Gates, or work in the tech industry, you likely cannot get away with dress-down business casual. The university professors who walk around campus at all hours dreaming up the latest physics theorem while wearing their old tweed jackets with the worn leather elbow pads are, like those techies, free of the ‘dress for work’ problem. For the rest of us, how we dress matters, even on casual days. And, it matters a lot. Why? Because, business casual days, like any other days, are subject to the same rules-7 seconds makes or breaks impressions. Remember, you’re always making an impression with your appearance. So, if you’re wearing your sandals to work, everyone will think you’re not really working. So, why show up? And what if that client shows up unexpectedly? How will you explain your jeans? Tie-less, yes, jeans, not so much.

One woman called me for advice because she was a bit on the plus size and in an administrative position so she felt she had few choices, and even less cash. Every day was casual day for her, but it was hurting her career. We found some good options for her on sale by putting together some classic colors and shapes. In no time she was ready for work, looking like a million, and satisfying the dress code. The most dressing down she did for casual Fridays became a brighter blouse and a cardigan sweater rather than a jacket.
And this is the rule for all of us. Dress casual is just one notch down from what you usually wear. Maybe flats instead of pumps. Maybe you can wear a bright tank instead of regulation white or beige. Maybe, as a stretch, chinos for the men, but better to wear dark pants, loafer shoes and skip the tie, but keep the pressed shirt. No plaid shirts please, and no grungy jeans.
The rule is-one notch down from your usual uniform and no more than that.

How to Wear White

Summer whites approach…

I love wearing white…and most people do when the hot days are upon us. It looks so crisp,clean and cool.
There are many versions of this colorless color.
The very white -white and gray white are best for people with cool skin. Especially good on people with high contrasts such as dark hair and light eyes.
Off white and oyster white (gray-ish white) are good on the cool skin also, and is often best on the pale cool skin with the light hair.
Ivory, cream, ecru are best for the warm skinned people.
Whites can be very tricky under the fluorescent store lights. Take the garment to the window to get a better look at the hue. If you are trying to match whites this can be as difficult as matching black. Always bring the garment you are trying to match with you.. You will be shocked at the subtle variations in this non-color.
I used to think when ivory was worn with pure white that it was obviously a mistake. Not so. Done correctly it is one of the chicest ways to wear the two whites. Ralph Lauren rocks this combination all the time and it looks so very stylish.